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		<title>How to deal with a strong-willed child (without turning into the parent you never wanted to be)</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Strong-willed children don't need stricter parents. They need calm leadership. Discover why your nervous system—not your child—is often the missing piece.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://alenagomesrodrigues.com/strong-willed-child-without-yelling/">How to deal with a strong-willed child (without turning into the parent you never wanted to be)</a> appeared first on <a href="https://alenagomesrodrigues.com">Alena Gomes Rodrigues</a>.</p>
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		<title>Why is it so hard to say no to your kids without feeling guilty?</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>If saying "no" fills you with guilt, the problem probably isn't your kids. It's the generational pattern your nervous system learned long before you became a parent.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://alenagomesrodrigues.com/say-no-to-kids-without-guilt/">Why is it so hard to say no to your kids without feeling guilty?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://alenagomesrodrigues.com">Alena Gomes Rodrigues</a>.</p>
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		<title>Why Do I Sound Like My Mother When I Get Stressed?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2026 10:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The problem is usually not your child. It's the old survival pattern your nervous system reaches for when you no longer feel safe.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://alenagomesrodrigues.com/sound-like-my-mother-when-stressed/">Why Do I Sound Like My Mother When I Get Stressed?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://alenagomesrodrigues.com">Alena Gomes Rodrigues</a>.</p>
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